This Year is still fresh and new … and although we have probably eaten the chocolate we banished on the first of the month … or decided to let the running shoes “dry out” for another couple of days …. its ok!
We will put them on again when the spring weather starts to appear and we feel the urge to get fit.
But what we must establish now and stay true are the boundaries that we are setting …
We hope and wish for love and respect … but not everyone will show you this and when they walk away taking what they will from their encounter with you, it is also for you to learn the lesson.
As I say so many times
“If you lie on the floor people will invariably walk all over you”
SO GET UP! …. do not be a door mat! …
be strong …. be loving …. be the healers and the menders but ….
Not at the expense of yourselves! You don’t help anyone by letting them break you xx